Labor Day Lemonade Stand & Saying Goodbye to Uncle Caleb!

One great thing about living in Alabama is the warm weather, even in September (Although, I know that everyone doesnt enjoy the hot weather lasting so long as much as we do :) We took full advantage of the sun on Labor Day by letting the kids have a lemonade stand and they had a great time! Inna and Grant had lots of customers and enjoyed making their money! When Grant decided that he had made enough, they split their money and he went inside, but Inna decided she wasnt going to quit until there was absolutely no lemonade left to make! Here is a couple of pics from their fun day:


Vitali watching the action from the shade~



The rest of the evening was spent saying our goodbye's to my brother Caleb (Uncle KK) who many of you know. He actually joined the Army and left for Boot Camp last week. We were sad to see him go as we are so used to him being with us often, but at the same are excited for him as we know that he spent much time in prayer and talking to many others that he respects before making the decision. He has had many friends in his prayer groups over the years that are in the Air Force, but he said, that he just really felt led to the Army. He took the test that they take and scored really hi on it and had the option of many jobs. The position he took will be learning the procedures to launch Patriot Missiles. He will be at Boot Camp for 9 weeks in Oklahoma and then train for his job in Texas until March. Then, more than likely will be deployed or if not deployed, he will probably be living overseas for about 3 yrs from what he has been told. So, you can see why this felt like a BIG goodbye! Of course, right now, just have to get through Boot Camp! By the way, I told Jason and Caleb that I blamed Jason for sending my brother off because of all the times Jason got Caleb to come over to watch "The Band of Brother's" movies with him (A series of about 10 Military movies that they love). Really, we are all proud of him and those of you who know him, please pray for him! I will probably add a few quick updates on our blog as we receive letters since he cannot contact anyone any other way right now.
Comments:
Lara~ Thanks for checking on us...contact us when you move back!

Stephanie~ I am so glad to hear from you! Please email us if your family is ever coming to Alabama and we would love to meet up and meet your brother from India too(By the way, don't you have two siblings from India? I couldnt remember)

Hannah~ Awesome...you have a blog now...we can follow you at college!!! Sounds like you have had a good start...keep letting us know how you are doing!

We're Still Alive!!

Wow...where to start? Well, it has been longer than I expected since my last post, so lots to catch up on....Thanks to all of you who we ran into in Costco :), church, restaurants that reminded us that you were still checking and hadnt been updated in a while. It is great hearing that ya'll are still following along with us. We are still so thankful for the prayers and support. I had one person tell me today that they had been waiting on an update, but figured it out that we were waiting until the 100th day on our count up to post and Gosh, that would have been a great idea, but I couldnt wait any longer, so here's to celebrating Day 99!

Jason and I are doing good and thankfully, nothing too eventful to report on us!


Inna: Started Gymnastics 2 days a week and is doing good. It was really cool, because we signed her up at YMCA one weekend and then I found out later that week that there is a lady who is a Russian Gymnastics coach at the Y where she is taking. She is the team coach if you make a team, so is not Inna's coach, but they did get to meet and talk a little in Russian and maybe one day if Inna is on a team, she can be her coach...cool, huh? Also, Inna started school a couple of weeks ago and seems to like her school, but thinks it is cutting in to too much of her play time right now :) She has a girl named Cameron who is assigned to help Inna throughout the day. She seems to be ok with going to school from 8-3:00, but can't get over yet that school is Mon-Fri. She loves her reading teacher and says that reading is her favorite subject. Her biggest struggle is Math, but we feel that it is probably not a matter of comprehension, but a matter of probably never being taught the information. Jason worked with her on riding her bike and she was so determined that she learned how to ride a bike the first day that she got on it. She worked on it from morning until night until she had it down...so, she has now gotten her first bicycle and is very proud of it.

Grant: Started football...he practices 3 days a wk and will have games on Saturdays. He has always wanted to play football, but didnt want to play flag football. He wanted to wait to start until he could tackle and this year, he finally reached that age and let me tell ya, he LOVES it! He wears his football equipment around the house all the time. If you live in P-ville, you may eventually see him wearing it to Walmart or out to eat (I am the mom that let my child when he was smaller wear Superman pajamas complete with his Superman cape to Walmart shopping since he loved it so much). He is really doing great at practice and just loves to tackle. He is holding his own when they try to tackle him and puts up a good fight, but if they end up tackling him, he actually jumps up and yell's in his toughest voice, "Yeah" and gets his hype on...he loves to give his toughest look to his opponent and say, "You getting tired yet?".
He started 2nd grade at school and loves it and loves his class. There are actually a couple of boys from his class playing football with him. He got the teacher that we requested and he loves her. Of course, I think his favorite subject is still "snack time".

Vitali: Thank you so much for praying for Vitali's MRI/CT process. It was a smooth experience with the sedation and MRI/CT and all the reports came out clearly. The doctors were concerned that Vitali would have to have a pretty major surgery on his skull for his brain and was confirming the need for surgery with MRI and PRAISE GOD, after reading the MRI, they found that he would NOT need the surgery!!!! This was huge for us as we had known there was a possibility of the surgery since 3 mos ago and and are glad to finally have that cleared. The MRI was also clear to show us the underlying reasons for his developmental delays besides just being in an orphanage since birth. I know many have asked about the results of these test and we have already been able share with many of you, but for now, I am thinking at this time it would be best to share the test results in person or by email rather than having it on the blog since this will be our family journal of our adoption for years to come. Feel free to email anytime. Although, we know all of the testing is important and can point us in educating ourselves on how to best help him through life, we also know that Vitali is already a completely different child than when we were visiting him at the orphanage. There are daily struggles and there probably will be, but he is such a blessing to us and there is so much peace in just knowing that no matter what comes our way, we are in the will of the Father. The developmental specialist at UAB recommended that he start Special Ed and we have him registered and have the ball rolling there. The next step in Special Ed is an interview with Jason and I and then his evaluation and then at the least start Speech and Occupational Therapy. We are not sure how many days or how long he will go yet. We have loved all of our dealings with Special Ed here in Prattville. I didnt know what to expect in our little bitty town, but they have been wonderful and so eager to help us! I really believe that Vitali will be in the best hands in their Special Ed program. They are going to evaluate him often for possible advancement, so that he is not left in a level that he may have already advanced from.
I really think his name explains it all for him....we decided to keep his name, Vitali for 2 reasons: We didnt want to change the name he had always gone by unless this is something he wanted to do and if he ever comes to us and wants to change it, then that is what we will do. Also, another reason is that his name Vitali means "LIFE GIVING"...the root word of his name is Vital and we all know what that means. I truly believe with all my heart that this is no accident and it is a constant reminder of what God is going to do in him. When I was in Ukraine, I had 2 friends that called and checked on me a lot and they didnt know how to say his name yet and they both accidentally called him Vitality and I would laugh and say, you mean Vitali, but one day while we were there and while on the phone with them, they both called him that again and instead of correcting this time, I stopped and said, "Oh my goodness, do you realize what you are calling this little boy with so many struggles, "Vitality" (dictionary def: to live and develop) and we both just stopped and were in awe of how God can use such neat things to speak to our hearts and that was our reminder again of the great things ahead for Vitali.
I have been asked to share our testimony at our Women's Brkfst at church and shared this story the other day with them (If ya'll were there, you can skip below, haha), but the other day, I had had a really challenging day and went to bed that night exhausted and a little down. I woke up the next morning and was getting dressed for church and Vitali who is normally too hyperactive to sit and watch t.v. and is just learning to speak (Especially English) came in there and saw this preacher on t.v. and became very intrigued...he just sat under the t.v. and stared at it for a long time like I have never seen him do. I went about my business and was finishing getting dressed when Vitali ran up to me like he had something really important to say and said, "MAMA, MAMA, MAMA, GOD IS WORKING!". This is apparently what he had picked up from the sermon and he was exactly right!




Tiff: Is cheerleading this year and had her first game this weekend! They have had practice everyday at school for the past month and will until football/basketball is over. She is really enjoying it and is looking most forward to the away game in Panama City. She is in 11th grade this year and can tell you at anytime the exact amount of days left until summer again!




One other neat thing that happened since last post is that we found pics of Inna's orphanage on the internet. I can't remember who gave us this advice, but another international adoptive parent told us one time this info: In Ukraine, you are not usually given any photos of your children of when they were younger or babies when you leave the country, so we have no past photos of Inna or Vitali, except the one I posted on the blog that I took a picture of a picture of Inna that I saw on her orphanage wall of when she was about 7 or 8. To be honest, I am not sure that they have ever seen a baby photo of themself. So, what we learned from other adoptive parents is to try to google your childs orphanage and home town on the internet and see if some older pics come up from sites like missionary groups that have been there, etc....and possibly posted photos of your child from their mission trip. It has actually worked for some families. So, we havent found any of Inna or Vitali yet, but we did find a site from a mission-type group that had info and photos of her orphanage on it from I think it was 2004. The photos were of friends in other groups at her orphanage and the director and teachers at orphanage. Inna knew everyone of them by name and it was just kinda cool for us to see. However, Jason forgot to save it to favorites and if I can find it again (it wasnt easy to find first time), maybe I can post on the blog.

I will try to get some gymnastic pics of Inna for next post...my camera bit the dust before I could get them this time.

By the way, the song on the blog this time is Inna's favorite that I wrote about on post last time, which is NOW Vitali's favorite too. He knows the words!

Comments:

Kevin & Tammy~ Hang in there...I am following along your blog while you're in Ukraine and thankful for how things are moving along. Will pray for your court date on Monday!!!

Ukraniac~ We will be looking forward to hearing about your itenerary in the states. You will be perfect to teach the AIDS kids English! We have thought about you so much, especially with the recent attacks on Georgia. Also, I have tried to email you at the medical outreach email address about the form we discussed, but it is shooting back to me?

Lara~ We would love to get together if you move back to P-ville...let us know!

MaMaPoruski~ I love reading about your great stories of getting your children. I hope that you are able to go get your daughter very soon!!!

Jerry & Amanda~ Amen to your comment...you did forget TGIF though with McDonald's. How has your first couple of weeks been back at school?

Tiff: M-E-E-E-R-L-E- ~ Bangladesh Redneck!!!! HAHA!

Post on Ukraine & Adoption

Hi everyone~ This will be a little different post than our regular updates, but I hope all will read, not just the adopting families :)
First, a quick update: We are doing well and still going to several medical appointments and undergoing evals on Vitali. He is having his MRI under anesthesia on August 5th and we would appreciate any prayers for a smooth time that day and for
a clear MRI report. Thanks so much!!! More updates on post next time.
For now.......

We have for so long wanted to post some info that we have found helpful during our adoption and hope maybe others in the adoption process may be able to use some of this info as well.
First, a little reflection on our time in Ukraine. After being there for such a long period, we kinda felt like we moved there for a short time and then moved back to America, haha! It is no secret that the adoption process in Ukraine changes at different times with different leadership and many times right now has been quite a challenging process for those we are aware of traveling into the country. At the same time, there are an abundance of orphans there that need a family and we truly believe that if this is where the Lord is leading you that He will sustain you and prepare the way throughout the process.
After being in Ukraine and now being home, I find myself thinking of the people and the orphans there a lot. My heart just goes out to the people there. I can remember looking around while I was there and feeling an overwhelming sadness for the opression that so many are living under as they have become a free country from communism, but so many are still living under great oppression and desperately need to know the love of Christ and the freedom He gives. My heart is burdened for the orphans that "graduate" from the system and become prostitutes, drug addicts, and street kids, but what I think of most of all is the orphans in Inna's & Vitali's orphanages that we saw on our visits to the orphanages while we were there. As Inna begins to share more and more about what she was living in and experiencing at her own orphanage (which could only be expected in an institution of approx 300 kids), I am deeply burdened for the ones that we met that are still there...we pray for them often, especially Inna's best friend, Lena (It rhymes, I know :) who she just got a letter from and we were all excited!! Inna wrote her back immediately and wanted to send almost everything she has to Lena in Ukraine. They normally don't let you wear your orphanage clothes out of the orphanage when you leave, but they graciously let Inna wear hers to leave with Jason, so Inna really wanted Lena to have them, so she packed them in a box to send back to her. A neat thing that happened was while we were visiting Inna at her orphanage, I was really drawn to this sweet little girl in her group name Valya and I have thought about her and prayed for her often since we have come home and when Inna got her letter from Lena, there was an old worn out picture inside of the girls and Valya was in the picture too and when I asked, it turns out that Inna's best friend, Lena & Valya are sisters and I had no idea...cool huh!!! Would you please pray that these 2 little girls (8 & 10 yrs old) will find a family also (& we would love it if it could be in America :)
I was also encouraged in Ukraine by so many wonderful people we heard about and came in contact with there. I just for some reason love the widows there (Babushka's)...they are easy to spot with their scarfs on their head and worn out boots. When you look at them, you know they have been through so much in their time, especially knowing the history of Ukraine. One great thing Marianna Peipon shared with me was about her church (Marianna, you can correct me on comments if I get anything wrong) was that it started not as a church, but a choir for widows and then later grew into the church that it is now and she told me the widows come every Sunday and walk to church rain or shine (and let me just tell you that is not an easy walk)...that is dedication!!!!
I guess I wanted to share the above because we cannot all adopt and we can not all take missions trips, but we can support the missionaries that are already there doing these things. 2 missionary groups that we know personally are The Peipons and Bridges of Faith and I know that they do what they do off of donations to their ministries and just wanted to share their info in case your church or individual would like to help them help the people and children of Ukraine.
If you have been following our blog from the beginning, you will remember the Peipons who helped Jason and I in such a tremendous way while we were there (By the way, we miss ya'll so much!) We had the honor to stay in there home for several days while we were in Ukraine and we got to see their day in and day out and I can truly say that they are making a Huge difference there in so many areas. One particular that means a lot to me....Before we left for Ukraine, we went to an adoption clinic for education on adoption and learned that one of the most traumatic experiences for an orphan and one that causes the most delayed developement and delayed growth is when the orphans there have to go to the hospital, because there is no one to stay with them there. Can you imagine how scary that must be for them to be there all alone. Well, this is one thing that just stayed with me after clinic and I told Jason, one day I wish we could just take a missions team there and just sit and be with the orphans in the hospital, so that they wouldnt be alone, even though I had never heard of a missions team doing that type thing. Well, this is how AWESOME God is....he placed Jason and I in a missionaries home (The Peipons) that does this very type missions work. Marianna goes to the hospital, I think it is once a week, and sits, loves on, and plays with AIDS orphans. She has many wonderful pictures at her house of this and it was just a blessing for me to see that God had already placed this on a whole group of people's hearts too!!!!! This is just a small portion of what they do there....here is there website for more info.....
http://www.ukrainemedicaloutreach.org/

Also, another missionary friend is Tom & Larissa Benz of Bridges of Faith. They are doing a great work for the orphans of Ukraine by among other things, holding VBS type camps at the orphanages, even right now as I type. He has shared in his updates of many that have come to know Christ and their lives changed for the better through their ministry there. Here is their website for more info....
http://www.bridgesoffaith.com/

Now, for the ones in the adoption process:
Here is a little bit of info of things that have helped us greatly....
About the adoption links to the right of our blog:
1. Family Life Today~ I beg you to listen to these adoption audios for free...they are Awesome!!!

2. APAC (Alabama Post Adoption Connection)~ They offer a lot of services, but we used them to order library books online for Grant...it was great, I just asked them to send me what they had to prepare siblings of adopted children and they mailed me about 5 books and then you just mail them back when your done. They have books on any adoptive subject.

3. Lifeline Children's Services~ This is the adoption agency we used and we had a great experience with them and highly recommend them. They use great facilitators and believe me, that is important. We came across some families while we were there (not with our agency) that did not have good experiences with their facilitators.

4. UAB International Adoption Clinic~ OK, I really don't think we could have done it without them! They are very experienced on internationally adopted chldren and their medical, emotional, and developmental needs, which is very needed. They kind of guide you into all the areas that need to be tested and how to get started with the help needed. Even my regular pediatrician recommended that we go to them first as most Pediatricians do not have experience with International or institutionalized children.

Some other helpful things specifically for Ukraine.....
1. CD/Handbook~ Ukrainian plus Russian phrases for children- this is a great CD for adoptive parents to learn the basic phrases that you will want to say to your children your first meeting and time at home. I cannot imagine if we had not had this...it has been so helpful. If you are adopting an older child, you will definitely want this. Ours have been picking up a lot of English quickly, but even our first month home, I understood a lot of what they were saying in Ukrainian just from these CD's. We also left the CD with Inna at the orphanage to learn some English before she came home with us.

2. In a store in Kiev called Children's World (It is a pretty popular store there and your facilitator will probably know how to get there), they sell books for children that have basic needs...food, hygeine words, anatomy in Ukranian/Russian and in English. It has the Ukranian/Russian word and then the English word with how to pronounce it written in Ukranian (hope that made sense), it is a good resource to have.

Also, A great site that we would encourage you to check out as we have found the info to be correct with our experience there and with the experience of others we talked to while there....
www.FRUA.org (chat)


This is all I can think of for now. If I think of anything else important, I will add to another post. If you would like to email us...our email address is melhall75@knology.net or jhgasco@knology.net

Comments:
Lara~ Yes, Yes...we remember your family and Jackson...so glad to hear from you! By the way, Do I remember right that you lived in Prattville?

Connie~ Thanks for the comments...I do believe that you more than made up for not having to change diapers starting off with a 9 & 12 yr old :)

Marianna~ Alabama...next spring???? Woohoo!!! Do you know where you are going to be yet...you know that we would love to meet up or if you would like to have an adventurous, action packed time, you could even stay with us!!!!!

Jeanne~ Are you & Kolya coming to Alabama too? Hope so!!! We miss you too and I know Grant would love to see you!!! He might could draw you another potty pic!!!

Andrea & Alea~ Thanks so much for the sweet comment...Alea, Inna had so much fun with you the other day...we will have to do it again soon!!!

Dad~ Yep, we plan to keep the blog going for a while as it is a family journal of our adoption for us also.

Pat Maioulis~ Thanks for your comment on the slide show...we are very touched by your kind words!

A Great Week of Relaxation, Spa Treatments, & Eating Bon Bons

OOPS...I MEANT to put a Great Week Of Hyperactivity, Parasite Treatments, and eating Mickey D's on the road in between appointments, haha! Wow...we have been trying to catch Inna and Vitali up on a LIFETIME of missed health care and it has kept us pretty busy lately! We went to the eye doctor this week and Praise God, we were cleared there and didnt have to get glasses this time. Vitali will need to go back in a year when he is speaking more and evaluate again.

Today, all 3 kids went to the dentist and it was Inna & Vitali's first visit ever to a dentist and so as expected much dental work is needed including 2 baby root canals for Vitali. They all did great at the dentist and Inna even said she liked it, which is a good thing since between she and Vitali, they will have 6 dental visits coming up to get everything fixed. Grant is still holding on to his record of no cavaties and mama has never been so thankful!!!

Ok, can I just tell you that by far the worst part of medicals so far has been the million "you know what" collections of both kids that I have had to take to the lab to check for Parasites(I just know that I am getting an Amen from you other adoptive parents doing this right now). Now, I know this is not ideal, but I confess that on the last day of collecting, I paid a family member $10.00 to be the pooper scooper into the viles for that day (And I know the rest of you are thinking this is too much info, but I figure if I have to do it, I should at least be able to vent about it on my own blog), They both are being treated for parasites from the water in Ukraine and now we will have to start collecting all over again once the medicine is done (Guess, I better start saving my $10.00...just kidding). Speaking of the medicine...the doctors told us that the medicine taste really bad (There is only one pharmacy that it could even be found at) and so I was expecting this huge battle with the kids taking it. Well, Inna really doesnt like it and so I play every "entertain you so you don't know you are taking your medicine" game when she takes hers, but Vitali actually begs for his and falls on the floor crying for more when he is done...it is pretty comical.

This next week will consist of a Birmingham Audiologist appt, English tutoring for Inna (which is going great and you wouldnt believe how well she is speaking English), and we have a social worker coming to our house for a mandatory post-adoption assessment for Ukraine~ maybe this would be a good time to place a "Enter At Your Own Risk Sign" on my door, so she will have a good warning of the hi activity level in the house before entering. One friend has already told me that it sounds like I'm at Walmart when she calls my home :) I said, could'nt we at least make Target.

Vitali is still being evaluated, but one thing that was confirmed on our first UAB appt is that he is on a 15-24 month old level in every way (While we were in Ukraine, Jason and I guessed 18-24 mos, so we were not far off). His severe orphanage conditions definitely has played a huge part in his developmental delays, but there is a good possiblity of other underlying conditions that would cause some delays also. He has had x-rays of his skull, but the x-rays did not come out clear for what the doctors need to see, so they have recommended to put him under anesthesia and do a MRI. We are in the process of getting this scheduled now. Please continue to pray for a quick report as I think the hardest part is all the waiting. It seems that it will be so much easier when we can get through with the diagnostic part and know the best way to help him. UAB was telling us from the beginning that the most important factor to his development is that he build a good attachment to us and bonds well with his parents and they said that they didnt recommend any physical, occupational, or speech therapy until that has taken place first and the GREAT NEWS is that he is attaching and the bonding process is going AWESOME and his last UAB visit, they were very impressed on how well it was going and we could all tell a big improvement in his development. We just feel that he has come so far in a short time- far more than we ever could have expected from our visits with him at the orphanage. We definitely want to be educated on all that we can on how we can best help him...at the same time knowing that God has the final say on Vitali's medicals and He has already done more than we could imagine in Vitali. About 2 weeks ago, he began to really interact and communicate back and forth, which was not happening before and his little personality is really beginning to come out. He loves to go around the house reciting his family's names over and over, which he pronounces, Mama, Tato (Ukrainian word for Dad), Inna (he pronounces "Yeena", Grant (he pronounces, "Vant"), and then he says, "Tali". It is so precious!!

Some more 1st since last post:
Inna~ 1st Vacation Bible School, which she loved and 1st time her hair has been long enough for pig tails. The pic below is of she, Grant, and Grant's long time friend, Emma at VBS.



Vitali~ 1st time jumping off the diving board and swimming WITHOUT floaties. He is a true swimmer now.

Grant has had a BIG week as he turned 7 and celebrated his birthday by 3 of his best friends going out for Pizza and then Go-carts and Bumper Boats. Here are a couple pics from his B-day~
1. Grant & friends
2. Tiff & Grant riding Go-carts...he wasnt quite tall enough to drive himself yet



One last thing~ I decided to add the link to the song "Never let go" by David Crowder as it has become Inna's favorite song. She ask me to play it constantly and she has learned all of the words and sings with the CD every time. From the first time it played in the car, she said, "Please, again". When she is scared at night, she wants me and her to sing this song together now. She loves it and I think it is great, because it is about no matter what happens in our lives Jesus never let's go of us...he has always been there through the good and bad. There is probably not many people who would understand how much the message of this song means more than a child who has been an orphan. It seems to bring her so much comfort and has become one of my favorites as well! Here it is...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jHrbXEcee8


Pics below: I was looking over older pics and found these 2 pics...the 1st is of Inna now and the 2nd is of Inna at the airport her first day home with us 40 days ago...just can't believe how much she has grown in such a short amount of time. Does anyone else feel like your kids are changing at SuperSonic Speed? :)

Pics Cont'd....

Pics:

1. Grant talked his Aunt Tiff into having an overnight campout in the living room.

2. Vitali watcing T.V.

3. The first time we put Vitali in the pool his first week home, he did not have the strength to balance on floaties without his head tipping over in the water. Well, this is a pic of him now...not only can he balance in the water, but he jumps off the diving board about 100 times when we go swimming. YEA!!!!

4. Tiff with our animals...Max & Dil

New Pics

Here are some new pics of the past couple of weeks. We are all adjusting a little more each day and this week we had kind of a free week with no appointments or tutoring, but next week will make up for it with MANY appointments for the kids.We are awaiting confirmations on Vitali's medicals and will share with you what we can as soon as we know more, but we are seeing many improvements just from being in a family and having "normal" playing time outside. He started counting to 10 this week (which is HUGE!) and every week his balance gets a little better and his walk is much more stable than before.
We have many pics to share and because I can only get 5 pics per post, there will be pics on the post below too. Here they are.....

Pics:
1. Inna pretending to have a conversation on the phone. This is one of her favorite past times playing on the phone and practicing an English conversation. This pic is from one of those times. By the way, if you have called our house and someone answered and talked to you in Ukrainian and then hung up...it was Inna and we probably have no idea you called...try again :)

2. Papaw launching Grant in the pool

3. Papaw launching Inna in the pool

4. Inna took this pic of Mama & Grant

5. After many attempts of Vitali trying to stand and walk in Papa's shoes and after many face plants to the floor, in this pic he finally made it...SCORE!!!!

More Pics Below.....

What A Week- Part 2 :)

Well, we have had another eventful week. Daddy has officially gone back to work as of Monday and this was the first week of just Mama & 3. There were many challenges this week, but the Lord has been so gracious to give Mama & Papa the strength needed for each day! Thank you for all the support from friends and family this week...so many of you...you know who you are and I cannot thank you enough!!!

Inna & Vitali did go to the UAB international adoption clinic and it was so great to get the ball rolling there! I think they spent about 4 hours with us evaluating the two, but since they are older, the evaluations are quite extensive and they were not able to finish evaluating Vitali that day. We will go back on June 25th to finish his evaluations and get the results of Inna's. The Developmental Specialist tested her and did go ahead and tell us that she can start in 4th grade next year. So, when the school year starts, she will go to school with Grant. While we wait on our next UAB appointment, they will be seeing an Audiologist and Eye doctor. Grant went to the appointment with us and played hang man with one of their staff a lot of the time and he was just too excited not to have to get all the blood work with them. Inna on the other hand is one tough cookie and doesnt even react a little bit when getting blood work or even shots.

Well, with a whole new world to discover for Inna & Vitali, I thought I would post some of the things that they have found most AMAZING this past week~

Inna~
1. Tin Foil~ I pulled out tin foil to put on the left overs and by her reaction you would have thought she spotted Elvis...she was amazed even more the next day when she saw Jody(my hairdresser) put that AMAZING tin foil in my hair for highlights

2. The small ice in Sonic Drinks~ she looked at me in a panic and thought that something was wrong with her soda. I explained that it is just like what comes out of our refridgerator door, but smaller and she thought that was cool.

3. The fact that Mama is 33 years old. It was ok for Papa to be 33, but when we told her that I was 33, she just looked at me with very sadly and just kept saying, "Mama, No".

4. Tiff eating Bruster's Hot Fudge Sunday~ she just looked at it and fell on the floor in passing out position :)

Vitali~
1. The handle on the toilet~ potty training at it's best!

2. A Bath~ I could never explain the amount of activity involved in his baths, but let's just say a Gold Medal Gymnast has nothing on him. He loves it!!!!

3. Car ride

4. Back rubs~ He loves to be touched and usually will lift up his shirt meaning he wants us to rub his belly and then he always flips over and wants you to do his back.

5. Books~ At night, when I go to read him a bed time story, he just laughs and laughs when I start it off...he thinks it is so cool to have a book read to him!

Well, that's all for now! More updates later.....

Comments:
Stephanie~ Sounds like Riley IS a lot like Vitali. I would love to see a pic of him sometime! Thanks for keeping in touch along this journey!

Thanks for all the new post on the guestbook...Pat Miaoulis, Bret & Margie, and Elena Littlefield...it was great to hear from you!