A Great First Christmas Together!

Our first Christmas together as a family was lots of fun and we felt blessed in so many ways! There are many pics and I will share some of the ones that we have. Inna and Grant were besides themselves with excitement most of the time and Vitali just seemed to kind of take it all in in wonder of all that was happening. He loved his new trucks most of all and has played with the constantly since getting them. He also learned to sing a few Christmas songs....our favorite song that he sung was Jingle Bells, which he pronounces "Gibble Bells".

Grant and Inna caught the spirit of giving this Christmas as they bought each other something special. They had already bought each other something very small at the Secret Santa Shop at school, but Grant & Inna had been given some money by a family member for Christmas and Grant came up to me a few days before Christmas and said that when he and daddy and Inna were in Walmart, Inna saw something that she really liked so much and he wanted to know if he could use his money to buy it for her. It was a "lifesize" Barbie. I told him that that was so sweet of him and if that was what he really what he wanted to do than of course he could, but I also explained that she may not choose to buy something for him with her money as she is so excited to have her own money to buy something with (I tried to manage any expectations, so there wasnt disappointment later :) He told me, "I don't want her to buy me anything, I just want to do this for her because she loved that Barbie". He always has a BIG heart and loves to give, so I pretty much guessed that would be his answer before he even said. Well, I took him to the store and he proudly bought her the Barbie and after she saw it under the tree, she also decided that she too wanted to buy him something special with her money. She bought him a crossbow from the Bass Pro Shop(Nerf arrows) that they were playing with and she knew he really liked. Here are some pics of their gifts to each other:


Vitali and his gal :)

Another one of our favorite things was looking at Christmas lights. We bought some glow sticks and went to the best houses in our area:

Daddy, Inna, and Vitali got out at this house with everyone else and had a closeup look. Grant and I had seen it up close to0 many years in a row to get out in the cold, haha!



This scary guy showed up Christmas morning...ok, it is just Jason in one of his Christmas presents to keep warm at work:


Then, a couple days later, some football in the yard:
Grant getting ready to catch and run:

Jason going vertical :)

Jason's mom, Grandmama, getting in on the action:

A Reason To Celebrate....

We have so many reasons to celebrate this year...our family being together, health, great jobs, and the list goes on and on, but what we love about Christmas is that it is a holiday set aside to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus long ago and to celebrate the peace that we have in Him.

I posted before that I was asked to share testimony at our church women's group's last 4 breakfasts and one of the times, I shared about how I love to read the story behind the hymns and I shared the story behind, "What a Friend We Have In Jesus". If you have never read how they were written, I encourage you to google it. These writers have been through so much in their life and yet they write about the faithfulness of God. Well, today at church they shared the story behind the song, "I Heard the Bells On Christmas Day" and thought I would share a little bit...

The words to “I Heard the Bells On Christmas Day” were written by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow on Christmas Day 1864 in the midst of the American Civil War and the news of his son had suffered wounds as a soldier in battle. The poet had suffered the great loss of his wife two years earlier in a fire. But in the midst of it all, he wrote the poem “Christmas Bells” that became this carol. He finished with this last stanza...

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
"God is not dead, nor doth he sleep;
The wrong shall fail, the right prevail,
With peace on earth, goodwill to men."


Our adoption agency sent out Christmas letters this year and at the top was this Awesome heading:
The treasure of Christmas is HOPE,
The hope of Christmas is PEACE,
The peace of Christmas is Jesus!

At Christmas time, we are celebrating the peace of having a relationship with Jesus and our hope is that each of you will experience the peace and joy that only He can give this Christmas!

Below is the Casting Crown's version of I heard the Bells: (May have to turn off other music at the bottom)


ISAIAH 9:6
For unto us a child is born, to us a son is given and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called WONDERFUL, COUNCELOR, MIGHTY GOD, EVERLASTING FATHER, PRINCE OF PEACE.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

More family updates next post :)

More Updates

It is hard to get a picture of Vitali without movement, so this one is a little blurred, but I didnt want to crop it.

Let's see...it has been an action packed week :)
One of us had an appointment everyday this week and some pretty long appointments too! I somehow actually "no showed" an appointment too when it just completely slipped my mind even after I had seen it in my planner that morning but with the events of the day, forgot...oops!

We had our UAB Adoption Clinic 6 mos evals done again by pediatrician, speech therapist, and psychologist. They are just great to work with us on all areas needed and they are so knowledgable. Vitali has some knots in his neck in lymph nodes and actually some swollen lymph nodes all over with some other minor symptoms and has been waking up in the middle of the night with bad leg pain, so he had to have lots of blood work done and THANK GOD the blood work was normal.
I will not bore you with all the details of the day (It was about a 4 hr appt to get everything done)....all of the ones that evaluated the kids that day are going to get together and let us know the results soon. It is great to know we are good hands with them (they are medical professionals, but also adoptive parents also with lots of experience :) They are specifically trying to help us with Inna and school as it has been a very difficult challenge for all involved this year. It has been a challenge for her to do well in school coming from the background that she has(there has been behavioral issues at school) and then starting off so behind academically. She is a very smart girl, but had only been taught to a 1st grade level academically when she arrived here and she is the age of 5th grade, but the developmental specialist felt that we should try her in 4th grade this year. So, now the adoption clinic are using their professional knowledge and experience with internationally adopted children(they see this happen all the time in school) and putting all this together with my "mommy sense" and Jason's "daddy sense" and we are all going to try to come up with the best plan for her in school. Please pray for us if you think about it as we make these important decisions.

We have had a fun week too! The Christmas parties have begun! The kids will have a Birthday Party for Jesus at church wed night and they are looking forward to it. Jason and I went caroling this past wed night with our church at a nursing home here in P-ville. We just walked through the halls and sang and it was so sweet seeing the residents in their rooms as we walked by singing along with us. Then, we went to my grandmother (Meme's) retirement home for the Christmas Party there. It was lots of fun and they always go all out on the decorations. We always look forward to all the great party food there. We did not get to the parade this year as Grant had a birthday party to go to for a very special long time friend of his that he had not seen in a while. Saturday, I was able to go to the Christmas Breakfast at Christ Community where I was asked to give testimony and speak about our adoption relating to a different topic each month. I have had the honor of doing this since June and December was our last one. It has been a great opportunity to be able to share so much of God's faithfulness in the midst of so many adjustments.


Sooooo...I have asked the kids if there is something special they would like for Christmas and everyone had let me know, except for Inna who always has a long list of wants and couldnt decide...you know, the list gets larger with every commercial and every store trip (Try taking someone who has never been in a store to Walmart...we havent gotten brave enough to do Toys R Us yet :) Although, we have gotten Vitali to stop trying to give the Target employees kisses goodbye, haha! So, this week she was brushing my hair and I asked her if she could narrow it down to one thing that she would really like and to my surprise she said, "Well, I have been thinking and my present for Christmas is my family...that is what I REALLY wanted". I agree, that is my present too! With her saying that, it reminded of the Stephen Curtis Chapman song, "All I really want", so I added it to the blog this time.

Hope you are enjoying this Christmas season!

Comments:
Mederma~ Good to talk to ya on the phone! We miss ya'll too. Come on over to
P-ville when you get a chance! Luv~ Prep H

Kathy~ Thanks for the comment! Looking forward to reading more about your family!

Alan~ Wow...4 girls and not far apart in age...I am impressed! You are right about the stories being heartbreaking! I am so thankful that I can always take comfort in like the old song says, "He's Got The Whole World In His Hands"...it is a child's song, but so comforting when hearing things that are out of our control.

Tis the Season...

Here are some photos of our Christmas decorating day at our home (my camera was doing funny, so not all pics are real clear)~

The Guys:


Yes, everyone wanted to peek in the attic:


When the decorations finally made it down, the kids were in awe:



And...finally, the tree us up:



We also took some photos for Christmas cards and these are a couple that didnt make the card:

Next weekend, we will be going to the Christmas Parade here in our hometown. It is always lots of fun!

Tomorrow, we will be going to B-ham for our 6 month eval with our social worker (It was rescheduled last time) and then Inna and Vitali will have their 6 month eval at UAB Adoption Clinic. We have a busy day ahead, so guess I better close out until next time.....